It is better you don’t marry at all than to marry the wrong person. People who are married to the wrong person have unconsciously declare themselves prisoners for life. Even if you quit the marriage, you would still be in prison because you will always ask yourself why did i ever make such a mistake?
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However, not every body love marrying and remarrying. Some cultures sees it as a taboo while others do not just care about it. All the need is happiness.
Happiness in marriage does not just happen, you have to make it work by planning well before ever getting into it. If you plan well and do all your home work before getting married, you would live heaven on earth. While people will be complaining that married is difficult, you would not understand because your married is not just nice but sweet.
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When people look at your marriage they feel like getting married. They feel that they are missing something. And when you look at your marriage life, you feel like getting married over and over again to the same person. All these results can only be realized if you take your time to ask your partner questions about your relationship before getting married.
Remember that ” A good marriage is each for the other and two against the world” says Robert Brault. If you fail in your decision making at the beginning, you will never enjoy love. This is because ” Marriage is the virtuous exploration of love in its purest form and pleasure in its highest state” says Christie Cook.
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No matter what you have heard about marriage, Know that marriage is sweet despite all its ups and downs. They are all part of the beautiful thing called marriage. No one makes heaven without working out his salvation.Why is decision making before marriage so important in our lives? This is because poor decision making would make us to miss the taste of marriage and see marriage as evil. Marriage is good now and fore ever.
The failures people have encountered in marriage can never completely wipe out the importance of marriage. Marriage makes us responsible, it gives joy, and gives us honor, in short it makes you complete or a whole. Every unmarried person is ” half”. When you do your research and locate your better half, you become complete.
In the few minutes video below, we are going to unveil to you 8 questions that you should ask your partner before getting married. These questions would guide you in your search for a life partner so you don’t get into unnecessary trouble in future.
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These questions and their correct answer would not only pave the way for your marriage but would give you the joy of marriage for life. Remember there is an adage that “Failing to plan is planning to fail” Lets get started……
Inspiring Quotes About Marriage
The following inspiring ideals about marriage would keep you in a good mode:
” Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years” Simone signoret. That is the little or tiny problems you may encounter in your marriage do not mean that your relationship is not genuine. They are there to strengthen your marriage and not to destroy it. The problems helps you understand yourselves better, the like and the dislikes of your partner. “In every dark cloud there is a silver lining” Focus more on your partner’s strength while you work gradually to improve on his or her weaknesses.
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” Happiness in marriage is a moment by moment choice. A decision to love, forgive, grow and grow old together” Fawn weaver. To be happy in marriage is a choice. The fact that people are happy in marriage does not not mean that there are no problems. The issue is that they don’t allowed little challenges to ruin their relationship. You can decide to be bitter with your partner for every little mistake he or she does while another person decides to be considerate and let go of the mistakes and move on with his relationship. Your bitterness would not only ruin you but would endanger your health. All is about application of wisdom. There is time for every thing. Time to say hey! baby that is not right and time to say thank you that is great. Such moments must come to pass.
” Marriage is not a noun; it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get. It is some thing you do. Its the way you love your partner everyday. Barbara De Angelis. That is to say that your success in marriage is a function of your hard work. ” No sweat, no sweet”
” One of the greatest thing in life is finding someone who knows all your mistakes and still thinks you are absolutely amazing” Unknown. This is the real power of unconditional love. Such a relationship knows no limit. This is the type of relationship i wish all my blog readers to have.
” Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his life” Franz schubert. There is a level of happiness that you can attain only when you are married. This doesn’t mean that those who are not married are not happy, but that happiness is level by level.
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” Sometimes two people stay together for the sake of the kids – two kids who sat under a full moon and pledged to be forever true” Robert Brault
No matter how you may have been offended bu your partner, you can always reject divorce for the sake of your kids. The children shall be your support stick when you are old and cannot help yourself. Sacrificing for them is an act of wisdom.
” There is no greater happiness for a man approaching a door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps” Ronald Reagan. This is evidence of mutual love in marriage.
“Marriage. It’s like a cultural hand-rail. It links folks to the past and guides them to the future” Diane Frolov. In marriage, you must learn from your past mistakes so as to ensure a better future.
” A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love” Pearl Buck.
Marriage is the only school that violates legal educational procedures. This is because it allows the students to start school only when they have been issued a certificate (Marriage certificate). Instead of going to school and learning before being issued a certificate, you begin schooling after you have being issued a certificate. Therefore every one in marriage must make effort to learn about marriage every day.
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“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have”. —Frederick Keonig. If we look down on our partners and fail to recognize and appreciate them for the little they can offer, we would never have the best of them and consequently happiness will far from us. A simple word of thanks can move mountains.
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“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers”. —Thich Nhat Hanh. Everyone love attention. Giving your partner attention makes him or her feel loved and honored.
Conclusion: I believe that the above ideas about choosing a life partner and inspiring quotes about marriage would go a long way to help you make valuable decisions about your marriage life.